Friday, December 20, 2013

A trip to Indian backwaters

The plan to get to Mysore was last minute. I had already booked a hotel for the night in Bangalore and we could have just stayed there - running water, no power cuts, shiny chrome taps and an A/C whose workings had just been explained. But we all knew how difficult it has now become to get around in Bangalore. In the once garden city where I had had the bumpy rides of my youth riding auto-rickshaws, I was now met with eye-burning pollution during long waits at traffic lights. What once were villages were now “skylish” apartments. We could do better than staying trapped in the hotel - we said to ourselves - and the plan to Mysore was hatched. I found a cheap hotel in Mysore to convince myself of the plan’s economy and hailed a cab to Mysore. A lot of cab operators still haven’t found GPS feasible enough in India and so were to rely on my cell-phone to get to the destination. After some navigation from the back seat I got ourselves to the hotel in Mandi Mohalla. The driver was to sleep in the car while we headed to our cheap room.

It was past midnight and I was too tired to worry about anything else but a good sleep. The squat toilet worked just fine and the checked pure wool quilts which hurts your skin bad gave me a sense of that nostalgia of 80s which I still seek in India and quietly put me to bed.

Morning was to wake me up with chatters on the street in a familiar language which I didn’t so much understand. The noises of bicycle bells, scootie horns, miscellaneous pots shaken on carriages by road bumps and occasional yells in Kannada were filling up the streets. There was a knock on the door . Which I answered but was unable to understand. I picked up the few words in English which the boy said and walked straight to reception. There was no concern about anything I was told. The boy had apparently misunderstood what he was asked to do and came knocking at the door.

I walked back getting a better look of the hotel now. Right outside my room on the right was a courtyard paved with irregular stones that were joined together with cement and dust of time. The sunlight shone at all corners and had kept the potted plants alive. The floor of the hotel paved in mosaic, was studded with glass fragments that formed square patterns converging into a flower. The morning light in India, more so than other places, gives a yellowish tint to reality. The noises then form a certain music and a small corner maintained with only little order makes a refuge from chaos of markets and the world around.

It was this order of world which my childhood was built with. There was no internet, the TV ran only in evenings and we spent our summers playing carrom board, card games or reading thick Indrajal comic books. The TV ran in the evenings and was fullu controlled by my grandpa much the way TV broadcasts themselves were controlled by the government. The half hour of Chitrahar on Wednesdays played songs that sew the ideas of love and separation much before sexuality could have made any sense to a child’s mind.

Back inside my room, I switched the TV on out of curiosity. I had preconceptions of what was to be on. The free and dynamic world of the TV had become quite repetitive in the decade of globalization - sensationalization of trivial reports, retorts and empty slogans exchanged between dynasts, goons and politicians and soft-porn of the mainstream cinema. Men were all now hooked to it in the increasing order of these.

The quiet world of my childhood now found only in poor neighborhoods of India had long departed from its cities and though I have only hit 30s this world seems to have been moved to a museum - of which I can only pick up the reminiscence of at places where globalization still has not made its way.

Not without their clashes the two worlds - market and backyard - seem to coexist in India. The urban India claims to have become West already while the rural backwaters of India struggle to survive - untrained in Western ways and trying hard only to get by.

There is a new song on TV for a film to be released next year - models as Nicole Faria and Evelyn Sharma show up in the trailer song, enjoying the beach, the sun and company of the Indian rapper Yo Yo Honey Singh. There is a certain buzz to the song, vibes of a new, money squandering, prosperous India and I quite like it.

But there is also the other song on Zee Cinema, of which I still relish the poetry of.

جب چلی ٹھنڈی ھوہ جب ئٹی کالی گھٹا
مجھکو اے جانےوفہ تم یاد آیے
زیندگی کی داستاں چاھے کتنی ھو ھسیں
بن تیرے کچھ بھی نھیں بن تیرے کچھ بھی نھیں

As the wind caresses me and clouds come up to the sky,
I think of you - the soul of my promised life*
The story of my life may be as pleasant as it is right now,
But it means nothing without you, nothing without you.

Asha Parekh, the actress, takes leave from a pair that tried to engage her into dancing and sings the song - out of nowhere as is always in the movies of the time and spends about five minutes mostly staring at the camera in an agony of separation which we don’t see on camera any more. It is that innocence, that rather repressed longing for the beloved that is nowhere to be seen in the new India. But why then is it still on TV - I wonder - and why do I keep coming back to it?

I think a lot of what we consider happiness did come out of this innocence. We often find comfort in losing ourself to another person - caring for someone else without the hope of getting something back. The world of my childhood may have departed but this control-sharing of Indian families, probably inherent, still survives. That could be why that seeing the cacophony of India media, it is my granddad’s (remote) control that I miss the most.

To reconcile the departure of the 80s world I often tell myself that the life was a bit too controlled in the 80s. Perturbed by the noise of Indian media, I often relish the memories of dharmyug, saptahik hindustan and krishi darshan when the license raj wouldn’t have allowed just anybody to broadcast whatever they wanted. In quitting the era of parental and governmental control, we seemed to have lost a bit of self-reflection as well. I see an excess of thinktanks, aspiring writers and international commentators but an orchestra of international acclaim is yet to come out of India. As I move closer to 40s and witness the departure of the world that brought me up I try coming to terms with that some things gone would never come back. The Hindi commentary, its popularity and its literature are not going to come back in that same form and whatever comes back or is reinvented would be as alien to me as anything else.

Indeed there are those who see continuity amidst the disparities of India and are fine with the demonic contrasts which globalization has unleashed. Enjoying the comforts of Western life, however, I still wish that I had spent more time on carrom, cards rather than video games and soft-porn. There is too much tantalizing on TV - everywhere - I think. There is a constant rush to reclaim what you could be missing out on without answering what you really want. What started as science in the era of enlightenment has now been reduced to knowledge of chemicals and genes that drive your body to get what it desires. The quite backwaters of India offer a stop where you could still think of what you’re missing before you’re madly after it.

*وفاء wafāʼ - loyalty, sincerity; consciensciousness



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